SeaMine wrote:
For me, CFNM is VERY sexual. Most off my experiences were at Black's Beach when I was of college age. I LOVED being naked in front of the girls, and sometimes took platonic female friends along so I could strip for them. It was always a thrill to run into clothed females at the beach who had never seen me nude--when I'd catch them looking down, I'd look away so they could "check me out" better. I didn't ever masturbate on the beach, and seldom got an erection (though I tried to when I noticed a girl staring at it--which I loved.
I've read that hard-ons and masturbation are more common nowadays, but I don't know from experience. I'm too old now to attract much attention, and no longer live in San Diego. But I want to go to Black's again (maybe with a Viagra-induced semi).
Like you, I've had many erotic experiences at Blacks and a host of other clothing-optional beaches. To your point that hard-ons and masturbation are more common, I would say that in the 70s and 80s, there wasn't as much law enforcement/beach patrol oversight as there is today. Also, we have to understand what people mean by "common". These days, on the most busiest days (sunny summer weekend), Blacks will see anywhere from 300 to 600 visitors over the approximate 2-mile stretch (ignore the stories about there being "thousands" - not true). On such a day, you *might* see at most three or so erections wherein the guy is proudly sporting them while walking about...some days none, some days more. Every once in a while you might see some guy nestled among the rocks stroking it while thinking no one can see him, but it is
very rare to see a guy doing it notoriously. Most of the time, folks become more apt to engage in open sexual displays after 6:00 p.m., because that's usually the time when the beach patrol driving their trucks leave for the day. And when it happens, its north of the main area where there are less observers
Every once in a while you'll see a girl giving a guy a handjob, but again, it's not common to see that routinely. Once just north of the main area, I saw one of the more erotic CFNM scenes I've ever seen (I've posted this several times before). It was an attractive girl with long blonde hair wearing a full one-piece black swimsuit sitting on the blanket in front of a naked guy sitting in a beach chair facing her with his legs spread. She was stroking his hard penis downward between his legs, but you could clearly see through the 18 inch space under the chair his erect dick in her hand as she jacked him off, and she happily knew folks could see it. There were three lone naked guys near them laying on their sides facing her (always happens when sex is going on) watching her jack him off. As they did, the were all jacking off, which was on full display for her to see. She had a big smile on her face as she jerked him off then would look over at the naked guys watching them stroked their erect dicks jacking off to what they were seeing. She would smile at them as it was clear she was proud of herself being able to get them so horny by what she was doing. But that kind of thing is uncommon to see and happens once in a blue moon.
I should also note that it's not just the guys that masturbate. A number of times, particularly when I was younger and buff, nude girls would see I was looking at them, then would open their legs in my direction and masturbate for me. Unfortunately, they are usually with a guy. But there is one middle-aged woman that has been a regular at beach in recent years. She's usually on the northern side of the main area with a group of people, mostly guys, around her. She always completely naked and spreads her legs in the direction of where folks walk on the beach. She's constantly rubbing her tits, legs and oiled body making undulating very sexual gyrations with her pelvis intentionally making it very erotic. She has a permanent big smile on her face, and every once in a while you'll see her hand slide down to her pussy and rub it two or three times, but not long enough to become a full-on masturbation show. I know some of our members have seen her do this, I got these images of her once:
Here are some video captures I got at Blacks a number of years ago showing exactly what I mention above. This fairly attractive nude woman saw I was looking at her. Note that I was sitting up and much higher up than what the camera shows, so she knew I could readily see her entire body. She had the guy put lotion on her shaved pussy, then looked at me with a smile and began to masturbate. After a while, you can see how he finished her off with her having an audible orgasm right in front of me. But again, this is *not* common and one has to go many times to have these precious moments: