Hi,
I have always been embarrassed to be around girls and particularly good looking ones. I get tongue tied and usually walk away after making a fool of myself. The thing I love about cfnm is that the pressure on me to be witty and charming is not there. The woman has the upper hand and being embarrassed is expected so in a strange way I feel more comfortable.
I've been in to cfnm for over 20 years now, even before I had heard of the term.
One of my favorite hobbies is to do cfnm photo shoots with models. Not professional glamour models although I have done some shoots, mostly amateur models from sites like modelmayhem. You would be surprised how many women are willing to do cfnm shoots when they realise there is no sex involved, they keep their clothes on and the pictures are for private use. Out of probably close to 100 models I have only had one model who didn't feel comfortable and I stopped the shoot and deleted the photos. The vast majority have a great time, I think that's important because it comes across in their expressions which I think is the most important part of the photos. I often get responses telling me how much they enjoyed it and asking when we can do another shoot which is really nice. I usually only do 2 or 3 shoots with a model as the novelty tends to wear off for them and that shows in the pictures. There have been a few exceptions who enjoy it so much that it keeps the spark alive.
I have tried doing some shoots with 'professional women' but it doesn't work as well.
No matter how many times I get naked in front of clothed women i still get really nervous. My main aim is for the ladies to have a great time and for me to feel embarrassed. It doesn't matter if the lady is young or old, good looking or not, providing they have a good time I'm happy and it will have been a success. It's important to explain what will happen beforehand and strictly keep within the limits that everyone feels happy with.
I just love being in cfnm situations where I'm at a disadvantage