OK, this may be slightly off-topic, but it was what got me started in CFNM (by my own definition, & after reading the history here, it is somewhat different to the forum definition, but not that different, I feel).
Quick explanation, I am into fantasy/RL CFNM, ENF, probably more OON really. I am 100%straight, find no turn on with CFNM as such, more find it really funny, but have also found that it was a huge turn on for a couple of gf's (one in particular, who will soon feature) and was a learning curve for a young man. I am far from shy, but not an exhibitionist. I have been a semi-regular naturist for many years. Now on to the CFNM.
As a young man, so early 1980's or slightly earlier, my gf and I were fairly regular naturists. No swinging, nothing kinky, just relaxing and swimming nude, in company. Anything sexual happened afterwards, alone.
A regular place to visit was our local, Eureka! in Kent (now just a porn club, no intetest). Here there was a more relaxed atmosphere than most camps, and a much younger clientele, and a higher percentage of women - all pluses for me. They also had quite a few open days, or fun days. Lots of Miss Nudist contests, anyone let in, no need to strip etc (although most did).
On this particular fun day, there was one 'guest' who was pretty obnoxious. He was fully dressed (over dressed for the hot summer weather) and stood a few feet from each beauty contest, camera clicking madly, and sweating profusely, having nothing to do with the temperature. He was, I suppose, early twenties. Looked like the typical bedsit loner.
Lots of complaints about his behaviour, the event organisers were going to ask him to leave, but a group of girls, naturists all, and led by an older woman (probably 40; I would consider her to be a kid now!) who was someone on the naturist scene at the time, an editor or camp manager, something, asked for him to be allowed to stay. This group of girls went around talking to quite a few people, my gf amongst them, and sometime later they seemed to have about thirty girls at one end of the stage, including the gf, all giggling and laughing. Suddenly, they rushed at the pervy photographer, pulled him up onto the stage, and, laughing madly, stripped him stark naked, held him up for all to see, gave a shirt speech about male perverts, and asked everyone to make sure they took his photo. I found out later that all his film was exposed while they exposed him, his clothes were stolen and only returned when the fun day ended, and I think that every single woman at the day knew what was going to happen. None of us men did.
The victim's photo (several of then) appeared in Health & Efficiency magazine a few weeks later, including one that showed the gf, or at keystrokes an arm, a shoulder, and about a quarter of her face, laughing hysterically, and helping strip him.
She found that she was really into CFNM then (well, not pure CFNM, obviously, but really into forcibly removing men's clothing). She couldn't speak about anything else fir weeks, and became very friendly as a result, so I had to keep reminding her. Afterwards, she was involved in several actual CFNM actions, all amongst our group of friends, but all, if not 'forced' were at least 'unplanned' and 'spontaneous', at least as far as the victim was concerned. I think each time it had been planned in advance, but all took place in sort of private settings, amongst friends, and with the victims not really minding. Too much. A few similar ENF situations as well, so as to keep the lads involved as much as anything, I suspect, and all the same style as the CFNM. And always one victim only, and for fairly short periods of time. And, boy or girl victim, it made the gf amazingly horny.
One thing I did notice about the Eureka! incident though, was that several of the girls who stripped him were, themselves, fully clothed and had been almost as offensive at the Mr Nudist show, photographing every willy they could. Someone pointed this out, and suggested that, in the interests of equality, one of the girls should get stripped as well. The reaction from the girls who had attacked the perv was instant and ferocious - suggesting that a girl should end up naked was treated as if he had suggested raping a child. I learnt of double standards that day, as well!
OK, I agree it was not a CFNM incident as such, more a female revenge attack thing, but it was my introduction to women ganging up on, and stripping, a male for fun, and led to several, very mild and non-sexual, actually CFNM incidents later. However, I have a slightly different idea of CFNM as a result, and non-consent is certainly part of it for me, but so is laughter, especially laughter at someone naked. Hope this doesn't offend anyone, I am certainly not claiming copyright over anything, but it is a big and varied world out there.
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