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PostPosted: Wed Aug 04, 2021 7:03 am 
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In some weird way imagine this in some movie of some sorts like futuristic sci if.

Too me it is all just fantasy.


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For me I have always had a fantasy about a sort of national military service for young men which happens to involve having to be willing to be naked/exposed in front of civilian women in certain circumstances (perhaps in certain ceremonial, or initiation rituals, or in a uniform which leaves nothing to the imagination).

I like to imagine there would be an alternative for men who really couldn’t hack the full thing, but with a lot of peer pressure to join up, and with an intense focus on fitness, so all the men are in great shape when exposed! Love the idea that women know if they bide their time they’d be able to see just about any young man they like naked :lol:


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For me I have always had a fantasy about a sort of national military service for young men which happens to involve having to be willing to be naked/exposed in front of civilian women in certain circumstances (perhaps in certain ceremonial, or initiation rituals, or in a uniform which leaves nothing to the imagination).

I like to imagine there would be an alternative for men who really couldn’t hack the full thing, but with a lot of peer pressure to join up, and with an intense focus on fitness, so all the men are in great shape when exposed! Love the idea that women know if they bide their time they’d be able to see just about any young man they like naked :lol:



That would be a GREAT! scenario..


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One fantasy I like to envision is having a young man stripped naked by women. He is then spanked or forced to masturbate. Better yet, they hold him down and masturbate him themselves so he cumming against his will. I find the humiliation involved very arousing. Anyone else?


Oh yeah, hot fantasy for me too. Additional turn-ons: several more women appear than anticipated by the man, women brandishing strap-ons in front of him, leading him to a room equipped with all sorts of BDSM devices...


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quigonj wrote:
Saltire wrote:
For me I have always had a fantasy about a sort of national military service for young men which happens to involve having to be willing to be naked/exposed in front of civilian women in certain circumstances (perhaps in certain ceremonial, or initiation rituals, or in a uniform which leaves nothing to the imagination).

I like to imagine there would be an alternative for men who really couldn’t hack the full thing, but with a lot of peer pressure to join up, and with an intense focus on fitness, so all the men are in great shape when exposed! Love the idea that women know if they bide their time they’d be able to see just about any young man they like naked :lol:


That would be a GREAT! scenario..

Haha, yeah I think so – might be tempted to write up a story about it sometime I think :)


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I know that this is an older post, but forced CFNM was a FANTASY of mine.

If I even came close to doing my fantasy stuff, I'd either be in jail or committed to a mental health facility. It is something that I play out entirely in my mind.

I've had this fantasy since pre-school days: basically being captured by a bunch of girls and having them strip me.

However, when I actually wrote my first CFNM story (at age 12), it was very consensual.

I also have an interest in female domination, but even there I believe in "FemDom Lite - 1/3 less bondage). My dommes tend to be more loving and nurturing than cruel.

CFNM is probably the lowest setting in the kink-o-meter. So it's probably the thing that most people do and some of them probably do not even consider it kinky.

I've had a couple accidental CFNM incidents that I related elsewhere. Nothing erotic about them. I've had two female doctors. Nothing erotic there. It isn't what you do that makes an event erotic, it's the purpose with which you do it that counts.

I recently had a medical test where they took measurements with me laying down. Then I had to get up and run on a treadmill. Then lay down again and have the equipment re-attached. There wasn't time for modesty. I told the woman running the test, "If you don't mind seeing me in my underwear, I don't mind running in it."

I've also had a hot stone massage where I stripped down to my skivvies. There was no reason to go further, but if there were, I would have done it.

So the best I would do in real life is some role-playing naked servitude to some women who I trust and know very well. It isn't something that I am planning, but if it somehow happened, I'd play along :).


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Forced CFNM is my favorite


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Isn't this a constant problem with fantasy scenarios?

Obviously any kind of non-consensual sexual activity in real life is unacceptable, but (for me at least) the CFNM scenario involves humiliation, and that almost necessarily demands some form of coercion.

I would be extremely disturbed to read fantasies of male domination over women. And no, I don't think that's hypocrisy. Men acting out their fantasies on women is a genuine and serious problem in real life and such stories only serve to reinforce the already existing assumption of entitlement.

But it's hard to imagine CFNM fantasy stories encouraging 'acting out' in real life. And fantasy scenarios on CFNM sites are staged with the consent of the actors.


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Speaing generally, I like stories of such a kind, but only if the femals are "soft" and the forced males cannot help but get aroused and enjoy on some level what is "done" to them. Violence or *extreme* humilation are not my personal cup of tea.


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 02, 2022 8:16 am 
profken wrote:
One fantasy I like to envision is having a young man stripped naked by women. He is then spanked or forced to masturbate. Better yet, they hold him down and masturbate him themselves so he cumming against his will. I find the humiliation involved very arousing. Anyone else?


This is a very nice fantasy. I have a similar one in which roving gangs of 4-5 women "prey" on younger men at night, grabbing them and restraining them when they're alone. In a typical attack, they threaten to kick him in the balls unless he complies, often using a swift and brutal knee to make the point, and show they're serious ("I can do this all night; do you want me to do it again?").

They force him to hand over his phone, and they immediately start filming. They strip him and each woman takes a minute or so to examine him fully and comment on his package. Once they've all had a good look to their satisfaction, they start to jerk him to full mast. They film his erection from all angles while the lead woman measures his length and girth. The camerawoman zooms out occasionally so that his full body and face can be clearly viewed. The camera keeps rolling while he is masturbated to conclusion.

They review the video, checking that they're happy with the content, then make him watch as they send it to all the female contacts on his phone, before upoading it to the cloud as a 'trophy'.

Later, when he reports the incident to the police, the officer nods and says there has been a rash of these attacks lately; there are rumours swirling that these "hits" have been orchestrated somewhere on the dark web. It seems that women are placing orders to hit specific targets, and these orders are carried out by a shadowy group of female operatives, who seem to operate as a sort of clandestine secret society, leveraging their influence and reach through their jobs and various networks of contacts.

(Is that attractive female officer in the corner smiling slightly to herself, or is it just the imagination playing tricks?)


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Used to spend weekends with a lover in a CFNM environment. Usually on Sunday mornings she'd order me to wank in front of her while she drank tea and smoked often commenting about the size of my dick and balls


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Consent is an essential element in CFNM. On this board, what you are discussing would be ok in a BDSM type scenario where it is consensual role playing, with safe words and such, not as an unprovoked attack.
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I thought CFNM stands for "clothed female, nude male". It says nothing about consent. What you refer to would have to be termed "CCFNM". If it has to be consensual it gets a little dull (for me).


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I thought CFNM stands for "clothed female, nude male". It says nothing about consent. What you refer to would have to be termed "CCFNM". If it has to be consensual it gets a little dull (for me).


Never mind what the letters stand for. Read the forum rules to find out how we interpret it here. The founder of this forum is the originator of the term CFNM. He will take exception to anyone who comes here trying to tell him how to define it. If you find our intrpretation of it "a little dull", feel free to find a forum more suited to your needs or start your own.

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Does anyone else fantasise about being pantsed by women? A couple of my (female) friends once pulled my (male) friend's trunks down at the beach, briefly exposing his willy to about ten people (mainly women). The women who saw shrieked with amusement, and did that 'pretending to look away, while not looking away face'. Also noticed some of them struggled to look him in the eye for a few hours after :lol:

My friend took it well, but noticed he was blushing hard.

Has anyone else experienced something like this?


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 13, 2022 6:19 pm 
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Consent is an essential element in CFNM. On this board, what you are discussing would be ok in a BDSM type scenario where it is consensual role playing, with safe words and such, not as an unprovoked attack.


Before I join ths exchange, let me first say that I do my best to abide by the rules, that I act upon the requests of the moderators, and that I appreciate their unpaid work highly. I also have to admit that I'm not totally sure if I understand the rules and/or attitudes of the Mods in respect to this point correctly. So the remarks to follow are not menat to criticize anyone, but just to provide some input.
Personally, I doubt that there is any substantial and relevant difference between talking about a "solitary" sexual fantasy and one that is shared and perhaps even "acted out" by (at least) two people playfully. Compare the following two statements made by two imaginary men:

1) "In my fantasy, I dream about a situation where I am forcibly stripped by a woman."

2) "In my fantasy, I dream about a situation where I am forcibly stripped by a woman. My partner fantasizes about an analogous situation where she forcibly strips a man. So we play it out togehter in a BDSM scenario, pretending that she was a stranger who was forcing me to strip."

In my opinion, both statements equally refer to a fantasy, the only difference being that in the second case, the fantasy does not exist in the imagination alone, but is also acted out theatrically (by at least two persons).

So I feel it might make more sense to draw the line between "fantasy" vs. "reality" than between "simple fantasy" vs. "fantastic role pay". For example, if someone was describing in an erotic or approving way a real (or allegedly real) scenario that involves some coercion, this might cross a line.
And the description of very extreme and disturbing fantasies - whether they stand alone or are part of a BDSM play - might be inappropriate, too, I think.

Of course these are just my personal thoughts on this matter, and it's the decisions of the people running this forum which count and have to be acted upon.


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https://www.kinkly.com/definition/12506/forced-nudity

Imposed nudity or forced nudity as it is sometimes called is something you can not consent to. It is something done against your will.

That said. As Doug indicated, consent is a key element in any CFNM encounter.

Therefore no "imposed nudity" is allowed in the village.

If one wanted to play the "imposed nudity game", they are going to have to take a trip to the BDSM Village.

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Consent is an essential element in CFNM. On this board, what you are discussing would be ok in a BDSM type scenario where it is consensual role playing, with safe words and such, not as an unprovoked attack.


... So I feel it might make more sense to draw the line between "fantasy" vs. "reality" than between "simple fantasy" vs. "fantastic role pay". For example, if someone was describing in an erotic or approving way a real (or allegedly real) scenario that involves some coercion, this might cross a line.
And the description of very extreme and disturbing fantasies - whether they stand alone or are part of a BDSM play - might be inappropriate, too, I think.


"Drawing the Line" is an extremely difficult thing to do on a forum such as this. All the lines are "fuzzy". So much depends upon context and perceived intent. As an international forum with people from so many countries, cultures and religions what is entertainment for some is offensive to others. Sitting in the middle is a small but dedicated team of moderators. At times it feels like walking a thin line between biting the hand that feeds us and licking the boot that kicks us.

What we are discussing here is very much one of those cases where context is highly significant and is one of the reasons this board, unlike the old VS4W board is divided into sub-forums. The big clue here is for any discussion of "forced" activity is that you will get away with a lot more if you confine it to the BDSM sub-board viewforum.php?f=3.

Having said that, don't expect that area of the board to be open slather either, but you will get more leeway there.

Thanks Tea-rex and Chris58 for your rational and well-thought-out discussion on the subject. I hope this clears up some confusion.

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PostPosted: Sat Jul 30, 2022 7:46 am 
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I have got few fantasies like this.

A male teacher teaching a class of fifty or sixty female teenage students. Those students forcibly remove all his clothes and he is stark naked in front of all the girls. He is fully embarrassed. But he continues teaching and the girls watch his naked body more than they listen to the lesson. The girls laugh at the naked teacher, clap their hands, wolf whistle etc...


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OK, this may be slightly off-topic, but it was what got me started in CFNM (by my own definition, & after reading the history here, it is somewhat different to the forum definition, but not that different, I feel).
Quick explanation, I am into fantasy/RL CFNM, ENF, probably more OON really. I am 100%straight, find no turn on with CFNM as such, more find it really funny, but have also found that it was a huge turn on for a couple of gf's (one in particular, who will soon feature) and was a learning curve for a young man. I am far from shy, but not an exhibitionist. I have been a semi-regular naturist for many years. Now on to the CFNM.
As a young man, so early 1980's or slightly earlier, my gf and I were fairly regular naturists. No swinging, nothing kinky, just relaxing and swimming nude, in company. Anything sexual happened afterwards, alone.
A regular place to visit was our local, Eureka! in Kent (now just a porn club, no intetest). Here there was a more relaxed atmosphere than most camps, and a much younger clientele, and a higher percentage of women - all pluses for me. They also had quite a few open days, or fun days. Lots of Miss Nudist contests, anyone let in, no need to strip etc (although most did).
On this particular fun day, there was one 'guest' who was pretty obnoxious. He was fully dressed (over dressed for the hot summer weather) and stood a few feet from each beauty contest, camera clicking madly, and sweating profusely, having nothing to do with the temperature. He was, I suppose, early twenties. Looked like the typical bedsit loner.
Lots of complaints about his behaviour, the event organisers were going to ask him to leave, but a group of girls, naturists all, and led by an older woman (probably 40; I would consider her to be a kid now!) who was someone on the naturist scene at the time, an editor or camp manager, something, asked for him to be allowed to stay. This group of girls went around talking to quite a few people, my gf amongst them, and sometime later they seemed to have about thirty girls at one end of the stage, including the gf, all giggling and laughing. Suddenly, they rushed at the pervy photographer, pulled him up onto the stage, and, laughing madly, stripped him stark naked, held him up for all to see, gave a shirt speech about male perverts, and asked everyone to make sure they took his photo. I found out later that all his film was exposed while they exposed him, his clothes were stolen and only returned when the fun day ended, and I think that every single woman at the day knew what was going to happen. None of us men did.
The victim's photo (several of then) appeared in Health & Efficiency magazine a few weeks later, including one that showed the gf, or at keystrokes an arm, a shoulder, and about a quarter of her face, laughing hysterically, and helping strip him.
She found that she was really into CFNM then (well, not pure CFNM, obviously, but really into forcibly removing men's clothing). She couldn't speak about anything else fir weeks, and became very friendly as a result, so I had to keep reminding her. Afterwards, she was involved in several actual CFNM actions, all amongst our group of friends, but all, if not 'forced' were at least 'unplanned' and 'spontaneous', at least as far as the victim was concerned. I think each time it had been planned in advance, but all took place in sort of private settings, amongst friends, and with the victims not really minding. Too much. A few similar ENF situations as well, so as to keep the lads involved as much as anything, I suspect, and all the same style as the CFNM. And always one victim only, and for fairly short periods of time. And, boy or girl victim, it made the gf amazingly horny.
One thing I did notice about the Eureka! incident though, was that several of the girls who stripped him were, themselves, fully clothed and had been almost as offensive at the Mr Nudist show, photographing every willy they could. Someone pointed this out, and suggested that, in the interests of equality, one of the girls should get stripped as well. The reaction from the girls who had attacked the perv was instant and ferocious - suggesting that a girl should end up naked was treated as if he had suggested raping a child. I learnt of double standards that day, as well!
OK, I agree it was not a CFNM incident as such, more a female revenge attack thing, but it was my introduction to women ganging up on, and stripping, a male for fun, and led to several, very mild and non-sexual, actually CFNM incidents later. However, I have a slightly different idea of CFNM as a result, and non-consent is certainly part of it for me, but so is laughter, especially laughter at someone naked. Hope this doesn't offend anyone, I am certainly not claiming copyright over anything, but it is a big and varied world out there.


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Like many other things, the concept of imposed can be any consensual agreement, for example clothes aren't allowed after 8pm until the next morning. The tricky part is if it encompasses circumstances outside the norm, such as having dinner guests over during unclothed times. There would be circumstances where such an agreement would feel more "imposed" than others, but hey just gotta remember to cover all the bases next time! ;)


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