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Topic: Newbies - What Was Your First True CFNM Experience?
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Author:  Brett [ Sat Jul 27, 2019 11:17 am ]
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Lived in an apartment where I was able to catch ladies coming past my bedroom and across from a sidewalk where women walked past all the time. I had several experiences....some awesome, some meh. I think about them often.
Author:  Merman [ Sat Jul 27, 2019 9:26 pm ]
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My first CFNM happened when I was a teenager. Showing girls my dick while swimming etc. Think a lot of mine was pretty standard growing up.
Author:  Necro8617 [ Sun Jul 28, 2019 11:00 am ]
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Kevindude wrote:
During 7th grade when 2 girls entered the boys washroom on purpose. I was peeing and they were watching me, I gave my cock a couple of good shakes before I put it back in my pants.


Did they say anything to you? How long were they in there?
Author:  iSCDP [ Sun Jul 28, 2019 5:50 pm ]
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It was college for me. I accidentally dropped my towel in front of a female friend and then before I could pick it up I answered my phone. I had completely ignored the towel and and just stood there and talked for a minute or two while she waited trying to play it cool.
Author:  OldNakedMan [ Sun Jul 28, 2019 6:51 pm ]
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Brett wrote:
Lived in an apartment where I was able to catch ladies coming past my bedroom and across from a sidewalk where women walked past all the time. I had several experiences....some awesome, some meh. I think about them often.


My situation is similar in that I was the person passing by my neighbor's garage and saw him walking through the garage in a very casual way, wearing only a small and tight thong-style swim suit. I, being a male, work in my garage doing projects on people's cars, furniture, and other things to help them out. Most of time, I work with doors open in a thong; nude if the doors are closed.

So, I texted my neighbor about his being in a thong and whether he caught any "flack" about it. He's a man that has become a friend, having taught him how to make wine, work on vehicles, and the like, so he was very open about it. He stated that he doesn't dress that way around children, but is comfortable with it around adults and it's fine with his wife.

The upshot is that we now get together as couples with some of our older children, in their 30's and have been "allowed" to be nude at many gatherings. The women don't want to, allow us to be free in our nudity. No one minds and are supportive and have a lot of fun with it. Yes, people occasionally cop a feel, but nothing overtly sexual. It's truly liberating to be amongst women who are enjoying our nakedness, even when there's the occasional erection.
Author:  F0602B5B [ Mon Jul 29, 2019 1:49 am ]
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First real experience was with friends. The other couple were quite open, and it wasn't long before he had taken his clothes off and I was being encouraged to join them. It took me a while, but eventually I started to strip off and was left in just my underwear. After a few minutes, I just decided "hey they don't seem to mind" so I stood up and slipped my underwear off and that was that. It didn't take too long before I actually realised it wasn't that big a deal and started to enjoy myself and forget I was naked.
Author:  Mule [ Mon Jul 29, 2019 3:31 am ]
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My first CFNM happened as a child. There were several instances.

I grew up in 1950's Brooklyn. All the kids played on the street. Nobody wanted to "go in" to go to the bathroom. For girls, there wasn't many options. For boys, there was the alleyway. If a little boy had to go "pee pee" someone, usually an older girl would take him to the alleyway to do that. Very often, younger girls would tag along. I don't think that there was a girl on the block that didn't know what boys looked like "down there" before she started kindergarten. At that age, there was nothing sexual about that, but even then, I thought it was unfair. The girls got to see us, but we never got to see them.

I also bristled at the fact that every babysitter I knew was female.

My first adult CFNM started out accidentally when I was 25 years old. We had a very attractive 22-year-old friend living with us while she was looking for a new apartment. I was working out in the muddy garden when nobody else was home. I came in covered with mud and shed all including wet underwear and left it in the laundry room immediately inside the back door.

I walked down the hall to the shower. I came out, intending to go to my bed room to get dressed when I ran into my guest. Initially, I was in shock just seeing another person in the house which I thought was empty. Then I realized that I was totally naked, without even a towel, in front of her.

She looked at me and smiled. She said, "I was just about to make a cup of tea. Would you like some?"

I got over it and said, "Why not?" and turned heel and led her to the kitchen.

"Aren't you going to get dressed?" She asked.

I shrugged my shoulders and said, "Why should I? You've seen everything already."

She laughed. We spent about a half hour in the kitchen sitting, sipping tea and chatting before I finally got up, went to the bedroom and got dressed.

It was an odd mixture of embarrassment, but yet I was comfortable with the situation. I think it was because she was a very good friend and as sexy as she was, I was not interested in her that way. Beside, I was married and that might have been an issue with my wife :).

Other than having several female doctors, I've not been deliberately naked before women other than my wife. I would not go out of my way to engineer a CFNM situation, but I would not object if one should arise with either of my sisters-in-law and another woman who is a very good friend. So CFNM is for me, provided I am comfortable with the women and they are comfortable with it.
Author:  Mule [ Mon Jul 29, 2019 3:41 am ]
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My second adult CFNM situation happened when I was in the Air Force. This was in the "bad old days" when some of the things we did were not only politically incorrect, but by today's standards, illegal.

So I am at the stag bar at a large air base during happy hour watching the strippers hired by the club. I had my flight suit on. It had a pocket on the upper inside leg where you kept a knife to use in survival situation. It was a "thing" in those days to rip the pocket off the flight suit of a fellow airman. Such a situation had just happened in the bar to someone else.

I got up to go to the bathroom. My squadron mates decided that they would try to embarrass me and paid one of the strippers to follow me into the men's room bearing the recently torn-off knife pocket. She opened the door and walked in and dangled it from her finger and said, "Is this yours?" Luckily, I had just finished peeing. I turned around and showed her, "Nope, I still have mine."
Author:  smith54321 [ Mon Jul 29, 2019 4:23 am ]
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3 different instances as a youngster that stand out in my mind

Bathtime with my same age cousin, who was often in the room whilst I had my bath, but I was never in the room whilst she had hers

Using the swimming pool changing room during holidays when there were often girls there with their dads or big brothers. I, and their dads and big brothers, would shower naked and only about half of them would do so. I was never sure whether it was exciting, humiliating or frustrating that they could see my willy and I couldn't see their equivalent

Changing on the beach, where girls would always get a friend to hold a towel in front of them and boys would just pull down their pants and then look for their trunks to pull on. Sometimes I was that boy, sometime I was just nearby observing the contrast
Author:  Necro8617 [ Mon Jul 29, 2019 10:35 am ]
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Mule wrote:
My first CFNM happened as a child. There were several instances.

I grew up in 1950's Brooklyn. All the kids played on the street. Nobody wanted to "go in" to go to the bathroom. For girls, there wasn't many options. For boys, there was the alleyway. If a little boy had to go "pee pee" someone, usually an older girl would take him to the alleyway to do that. Very often, younger girls would tag along. I don't think that there was a girl on the block that didn't know what boys looked like "down there" before she started kindergarten. At that age, there was nothing sexual about that, but even then, I thought it was unfair. The girls got to see us, but we never got to see them.

I also bristled at the fact that every babysitter I knew was female.

My first adult CFNM started out accidentally when I was 25 years old. We had a very attractive 22-year-old friend living with us while she was looking for a new apartment. I was working out in the muddy garden when nobody else was home. I came in covered with mud and shed all including wet underwear and left it in the laundry room immediately inside the back door.

I walked down the hall to the shower. I came out, intending to go to my bed room to get dressed when I ran into my guest. Initially, I was in shock just seeing another person in the house which I thought was empty. Then I realized that I was totally naked, without even a towel, in front of her.

She looked at me and smiled. She said, "I was just about to make a cup of tea. Would you like some?"

I got over it and said, "Why not?" and turned heel and led her to the kitchen.

"Aren't you going to get dressed?" She asked.

I shrugged my shoulders and said, "Why should I? You've seen everything already."

She laughed. We spent about a half hour in the kitchen sitting, sipping tea and chatting before I finally got up, went to the bedroom and got dressed.

It was an odd mixture of embarrassment, but yet I was comfortable with the situation. I think it was because she was a very good friend and as sexy as she was, I was not interested in her that way. Beside, I was married and that might have been an issue with my wife :).

Other than having several female doctors, I've not been deliberately naked before women other than my wife. I would not go out of my way to engineer a CFNM situation, but I would not object if one should arise with either of my sisters-in-law and another woman who is a very good friend. So CFNM is for me, provided I am comfortable with the women and they are comfortable with it.


How old were the boys who would pee? Did the girls hang around the alley to see boys pee?
Author:  Rockcliff [ Mon Jul 29, 2019 11:49 am ]
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My first CFNM experience was when I was a student and I shared a flat with a couple of female friends. One of them always came into my room, without knocking, when she knew I would be naked. CFNM was a thrill then and it remains a lot of fun now. I adore being naked around beautiful women.
Author:  Mule [ Mon Jul 29, 2019 6:06 pm ]
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Necro8617 wrote:
Mule wrote:
My first CFNM happened as a child. There were several instances.

I grew up in 1950's Brooklyn.

How old were the boys who would pee? Did the girls hang around the alley to see boys pee?

Typically this happened with boys up to about 7- 8 years old. Older boys even up to teen years also used the alleyway (unescorted), but girls did hang around the alleyway when an older boy went in. I used it, but angled myself so nobody could see anything. I was obvious what I was doing, but there was no show to be seen.
Author:  Mule [ Mon Jul 29, 2019 6:18 pm ]
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I forgot one more experience. It happened at boot camp. It was the last weekend before the end of the camp and we had weekend liberty. I got back to the barracks early as did some of my flight members. We sat on the floor playing cards in our "skivvies." A couple of the guys came in later and had picked up some girls. They brought the girls into the barracks. I and some of the other guys just said "hi." Two of the guys went diving for their bunks under the covers.

It's underwear! It shows about as much as a bathing suit and while sitting on the floor, even less.
Author:  Rod_Tor [ Tue Jul 30, 2019 8:41 am ]
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The first experience I can remember now I was around 19 years old and I went to a dermatologist.

I demonstrated concerns about three different areas on my body: chest; butt and pennis.

Based on that, she asked to remove all my clothes. And lay down. She was around 60 years old.

I removed my clothes, laid down and she came to check my butt, not before she locked the door of the room. After that she asked to sit down to check my pennis and I had a boner because of the situation.

I was little concerned she could tell me how in appropriate it was, but she checked without expressing or saying anything.

She then checked my chest and told me I could wear my clothes again.

It was a exciting moment. :)
Author:  carolus [ Tue Jul 30, 2019 12:02 pm ]
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My first possibilities of cfnm experience was not completed but they felt hot. First time I was around 15 and I was going to buy new trousers. The female staff in the clothing store was around 30 I Think, she helped me and she was touching me near my dick to see if the trousers were right. We both liked the thrill but nothing more happened. The second time I was in highschool, I was 18 and I was invited att home on friday night at one of my female class mates and her friend, so they were two Girls. One of them started to touch me between my legs severel times but I was too unexperienced so I took her hand away. I later understood I lost my first chance to get a cfnm handjob in front of two female class mates! I can still regret it. :geek:
Author:  seadog2 [ Tue Jul 30, 2019 12:26 pm ]
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My first was when I was about 12 I was home alone and walking around by myself at night when I went up by the window and heard a whole car load of girls get out next door and looked out to see them all pointing and laughing.
Author:  Mule [ Tue Jul 30, 2019 5:02 pm ]
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Rod_Tor wrote:
The first experience I can remember now I was around 19 years old and I went to a dermatologist.

My wife is in the medical field and knows all the practices in the area. So I follow her advice on which doctors to see. At one point, all of them were female (podiatrist, dermatologist, dentist and primary care physician).

The only problem I had with my first female doctor was that she looked like she was 15 years old. I called her "Dr. Dougie" after the 80's TV show about a teenage doctor.

Our state laws are that all physical exams on a patient of the opposite sex to the doctor must be witnessed. So not only did I have a female doctor looking at my naked body, but the female nurse too. I figured that if they didn't know what boys looked like by then, I had much to question about their medical training.

As my doctor was giving me my prostate exam, I joked with her, "One advantage about having a female doctor is that their fingers are usually skinnier." She replied, "The same goes for female dentists." I responded, "I'm going to have to get these two pictures further apart in my head before lunch."

A friend of mine quipped, "You know you are in trouble when your doctor is giving you a rectal exam with both of his hands on your shoulders." When I told him that my doctor was a woman, he responded, "Haven't you ever heard of snap-on tools."

No, I don't have an issue with female medical personnel. The purpose of CFNM in that case is practical and not the humiliation of the male. When it comes to CFNM or femdom (I'm very low scale on that), it's a game played mostly in the mind. It's not what you do that counts but the intention with which it is done.
Author:  scottieman [ Wed Jul 31, 2019 3:55 am ]
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At university, the student union gents toilet had 2 entrances: one from the function room and one from the backstairs.

A couple of female sabbaticals/SRC members in particular would regularly use the backstairs and walk straight through the gents (which had the traditional long mass urinal) to get into the function room for free. They also copped a free eyeful of manhood on route.
Author:  Necro8617 [ Wed Jul 31, 2019 10:24 am ]
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scottieman wrote:
At university, the student union gents toilet had 2 entrances: one from the function room and one from the backstairs.

A couple of female sabbaticals/SRC members in particular would regularly use the backstairs and walk straight through the gents (which had the traditional long mass urinal) to get into the function room for free. They also copped a free eyeful of manhood on route.


How often did they do it? Were they obvious about looking?
Author:  CFNMbeachMeet [ Thu Aug 01, 2019 12:21 pm ]
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My first CFNM experience was in high school when the girls would watch us through the back door to the locker room as we got changed before/after practice. Later on some of them started walking through and eventually hanging out with us inside.
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