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A friend of mine walked into my room after i just showered

what I regard as my first true CFNM experience was in a Thai massage parlour in Yorkshire. I was in the area on a course with a friend from home who found the place. So we went in and booked a massage. The female masseuse led me to a little room asked me to take off my clothes and said she'd be back in a few minutes.
She came in just the moment I had finished just as I was wrapping the towel around my waist, and seeing me said that she "wasn't shy" to which I replied neither was I and dropped the towel.
after that I got up on the massage bed, she put on some Thai music and gave me a very sensual full body massage back and front.

Late 90’s I was having a wee in a bar in Tucson where the urinal was right next to the door. My mate was using the stall at the same time.

A girl (who clearly couldn’t wait for the queue for the ladies) walked in, had a good look, and left.

I was turned on and I had to finish my wee with an awkward full-length semi.

Before I finished a second girl came in for a look. I can only assume she had just spoken to the first girl. She screamed and left, her curiosity satisfied.

I was a super shy kid, so when a female friend walked in on me in the shower in high school and saw me totally naked I was completely mortified. But I thought about it for years.

I've had close calls when younger with people trying to pull down my trousers. At the time it fills me with dread and panic, afterwards i enjoyed the idea and regretted there lack of success, haha.

What was her reaction? Did you talk about it?

My first girlfriend was really shy about being naked in front of me, so she would typically leave her clothes on and cover herself up while things got heavy between us.

Oh the other side of that, she really loved how men looked naked so when we'd get started, she would almost immediately take my clothes off and they'd stay off.

So, a typical experience for us was me totally naked and her only ever partially naked and only for a short time.

My first true CFNM experience(s) happened at Glastonbury festival. Maybe 2002 or 2003.

I believe that in the past the showers at Glastonbury were completely open, mixed sex showering naked together, I also believe that now they are completely gender segregated.

The year I went it was a halfway house between the two, the showers were all private cubicles going around the edge of the room, but it was mixed sex and everyone had to undress at the benches dotted around the centre.

The first time I went was on the Thursday night with the festival only starting up, I went in and no-one else was in there except I could see one woman showering at the far end (the cubicles had doors but only in the middle if you get me, you could see heads and feet) there were also some attendants, both male and female (Greenpeace volunteers as Greenpeace ran the showers) I got a bench and as I started to get undressed a female volunteer came over to me and started explaining how you cant use your own shower stuff, you have to use the environmentally friendly stuff they provide. That was fine I carried on undressing and headed for the shower (she would have seen me naked briefly) When I came out of the shower there was a woman getting undressed at the other side of my bench, she was down to black bra and knickers, but th elook on her face as I walked towards her completely naked was something else, half shock - I dont know, but that was the first time I think I really 'got' CFNM and I loved it ! I also loved the fact that she then quickly took off her bra giving me a very quick look at some nice boobs but she dashed into the shower cubicle keeping her knickers on !
In the same moment that female volunteer came over and started asking me how the shower was ! So I stood completely naked in front of her and chatted for a while whilst I dried off. My second total understanding of CFNM right there and then !!

Will post a couple of other Glastonbury moments in a few minutes, need a break.

My previous post is still awaiting moderation, but hopefully this slots in nicely after it !

A couple of other experiences from that Glastonbury trip, I loved seeing all the naked women in that shower area, but the CFNM moments really stood out for me.

I went to the showers again earlyish the next morning, before the bands started. It was busier but not as bad as later in the weekend, I walked straight in, but people were having to stand in line for a few minutes whilst a shower cubicle became available , I grabbed a bench and there was a girl about the same age as me (around 20) waiting for a cubicle, she was wearing knickers but had a towel wrapped around her top half. She started chatting with me and I began to get undressed, we chatted whilst I took off my t-shirt, shoes, socks and even my jeans so I was standing there in just my boxer shorts. I then take hold of the waistband and start to pull my boxers down, she turns away in an instance but carries on chatting with me, she clearly just felt it inappropriate to watch that as she then turns back around, clearly looks down at my penis for a couple of seconds and chats away for another minute until a cubicle comes free and she goes take a shower. I didnt see her again !

The next day it was even busier and there was a queue to even get in to the shower area, a few of us, male and female were chatting in the queue and having a laugh for about 30 minutes before I got into the shower area, as they were only letting people in 1 at a time we all got seperated at this point and I was one of the first of this group to go in. I went and had my shower (always some CFNM and lots of boobies, but nothing that stands out in my mind) but when I came out of the shower one of the girls I had been chatting with was just finishing getting dressed again at the bench were my clothes were, she must have showered and dressed really quickly ! Anyway I walked over to her totally naked and she made small talk for a couple of minutes before she left. Again that was just an amazing experience. I actually ended up having a drink with her and a few of the others later and all the time I was thinking how she has seen my completely naked but I havent seen anything of her. That was incredibly erotic to me !

andyadc they are awesome buddy. Thanks for sharing!
DTR

We were 13. She saw all of us that day.

The waxing salon. The waxer is a young woman only 20 years old.

My first true CFNM experience was when I was heading home after a black-tie celebration and encountered a group of women on an hen night. Like many Scottish guys I’d received a kilt for my 18th birthday, and this was just the second time I’d worn it, and the first time I’d plucked up the courage (or been bullied enough by my mates ) to go ‘true Scotsman’ and wear it without underwear.

It was well into the early hours of the morning and I was pretty drunk by this stage, so when the group of women spotted me my natural shyness (and sense of self preservation ) didn’t quick in quite as quickly as it might have, and soon they had me pretty much surrounded, and were demanding to know what I was wearing under my kilt. I tried to parry the question, but they were having none of it, and soon they started trying to grab my kilt and lift it to see for themselves. I tried to stop them, but I only had two hands and there were about 10 of them, so it was a losing battle, and I could only concentrate on protecting my front, and they quickly raised up my kilt at the rear, exposing my bare butt to much delight for them and embarrassment for them.

Having got what they wanted (I thought) they asked me to pose for a photo with the bride and lead bridesmaid before they let me go, and I agreed (somewhat naively). They asked me to put my arms round both of them, and then counted down for the photo – when they got to 1, I was shocked when the two of them grabbed my kilt at the front, and lifted it right up exposing my cock, balls and everything else, to instant loud cheers and laughter . By the time I managed to untangle myself and desperately cover myself back up, all of them had had a good look, and in the case of the bride, even had a good feel. I must have turned a shade of purple I think

When I escaped I was hugely embarrassed, but as I walked home I couldn’t help but also be tremendously turned on by what had happened, and by the fact that 10 women had just exposed me entirely. It confused me at first, but I soon realised that what I had experienced had been a deeply erotic experience, even if I hadn’t quite realised it at the time. And so my journey into CFNM had begun!

My first CFNM experience was more of a close call as I don’t know if she saw my penis. It would’ve happened when I was about 12 or 13 and on a family vacation. We were staying at a beach shack that my grandparents had built in the 1950’s. The kids room was a long gallery style room which had 2 double bunk beds along one wall and then a wardrobe and an old trunk which looked kind of like a stereotypical pirate treasure chest, it also didn’t have a door but just a curtain on a rail like some change rooms have.
We were staying there with some family friends and some of their friends were staying in their caravan. They had a daughter maybe 2 years older than me. They would come into the house for meals and to use bathrooms.
The incident occurred one day when I rushed back into the house to change into board shorts to go and meet the others already down at the beach. Thinking no one else was in the house I didn’t really bother closing the curtain but just started undressing. I suddenly heard a whistle and saw that the girl was walking past the doorway so I quickly covered and dived behind the trunk, she continued walking. But 30 seconds later stuck her head around the doorway to see if she could catch me again but I still hadn’t got up yet. It wasn’t really awkward or anything that I can remember for the rest of the holiday so I don’t think she saw my dick.
I would love to have the same happen now!

Did she see your butt? Obviously she knew you were naked....I had a similar thing happen only the girl definitely saw my penis. Did you see her any other time after the trip?

I must have been 14 or 15 when this happened:

This happened on a train. I live in India, and it was my summer vacation. My parents and I were traveling. At some point, I wanted to pee. I went into the washroom, latched the door, and started to do my business. People who have travelled in our trains will know that our old trains rock hard, and when they do, sometimes, they tend to dislodge the latches on the bathroom door. So, there I was ... holding my dick, mid-stream, and trying to balance myself on a train that was rigorously practising to become a rodeo horse. And that's when the latch got dislodged opening the door and presenting the view of a 15-year old boy holding his pee-pee in his hand to two girls (one should have been older than me and the other one, presumably her younger sister) The younger one started laughing upon seeing me. Her sister tried to shush her and she was smiling, too. The unfortunate part was I could not even close the door as both of my hands were holding something - one was holding my thing and the other was holding onto the sidewall for balance. My undignified show went on till I ran out of pee. I exited the bathroom with a face that was redder than a Martian. The train journey was two nights long and mine and the girls' seats were close-by. We did run into each other and everytime they smiled at me. And I had to endure the shame of having giving them a free show of my dick doing an intimate act. At that point, it was embarrassing but later, that night itself actually, memories of that incident tittilated me ... their smiles and laughter made me yearn for more such incidents.

Yeah, she might have seen it in profile but where I was standing I sort of moved forward and left to hide behind the trunk. Yeah, maybe once or twice, she actually went out with my older cousin (who was also there on this holiday) for a few dates. I used to deal with her dad a fair bit years later with work.

I guess my first proper CFNM experience was when I was 18 and was in hospital to get a hernia operation. I had a male nurse who shaved the pubic area and while he was doing this another nurse came into the room to ask something and saw me standing there naked getting this done. She had a quick look up and down but she was an older nurse and I am not overtly large so there wasn’t really a great reaction. I think f it was her doing the shaving there would’ve been a much bigger response!
I have had another couple of medical related cfnm experiences and then other ones in group settings while out drinking etc.

My very first personal real-life CFNM-inspired moment was in 6th or 7th grade. We had swimming lessons once a week and our teacher repeatedly told us that we had to remove swimming trunks when showering for hygienic reasons. It was somewhat ugly to put on the soakingly wet speedos again after showering, so some of the braver boys did not put them back on, but held their speedos against their crotches and used their hands to cover the area on their way from the showers to the boys’ locker room. Our way coincidentally crossed that of the girls from their showers to their locker room. Occasionally a girl would meet a boy hurrying down the aisle, which would give cheers and “uuuuh”s but nothing more. I do remember that towards the end of the school year, I did no longer cover myself, nor did I run the way to the lockers, but self-confidently walked their naked. However, luckily (or unluckily) there was never an encounter with girls. The thought about the potential of that happening was still pretty overwhelming then.

Moreover, the locker walls were not exactly brand new and between two panels of the wall between the boys’ and girls’ locker rooms there was a small gap through which one could sometimes (depended on how the panels grew or shrank due to air temp and moisture I think) peek into the other room which was of course a big deal at that age. I remember that I often and deliberately chose a spot to change that was directly visible from that gap. I enjoyed the potential of the situation; and I know that I got spied on twice (which I learned a lot later).

Well, now that I think about it, the naked walk from the shower to the changing area was actually not my first CFNM experience. That first experience was a real CFNM situation and happened when I was about 8 years old and the neighbour girl invited my to her 10th or 11th birthday party. I was the only boy amongst a group of older girls from her class. We played interesting games, some of which I did not really understand as I was younger than the girls. One of the games was a kind of quiz where everyone had to answer a question and if they got it wrong had to remove an item of clothing. Again being the youngest, I was pretty bad in the game and ended up naked in front of the girls. They suddenly got very silent and looked at me very intensely and curiously. I remember standing there facing the girls and I do remember a few gaping mouths. I do not remember if the girls (or some) got naked too later, but I do not think so. I think I enjoyed being the center of curious (but I think honest) interest for a while.

Only later when I told my parents (I was so innocent!), I learnt that apparently this has been an inappropriate situation. I remember my mum talking to the neighbour girl on the topic, but not to her parents. Still, ... I enjoyed it ... a lot.