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First memory I can remember was at school, boys had to get changed for football in class room and rule was no undies I assume so they didn’t get dirty. I was too young to fully understand why it was exciting but I really liked the fact that all the girls were trying to peek at us.

You had to take your underwear off, in case they got dirty?

Approximately 20 years ago I was developed a rather unpleasant illness which my had stumped my GP. I decided to go private to seeka swift diagnosis. The cost of the appointment wasn't cheap - it cost nearly £1000 - a price I thought worth paying if it put me on the road to recovery. Whilst my issues were very much not related to any part of my genetalia, I hadn't bothered reading the full list of examinations I would be entitled to, so was rather taken aback when the doctor also wanted to inspect my testicles (that wasn't the only irrelevant test performed on me that day - I also had my sight and hearing tested - all part of the service apparently). Truth be told despite my surprise I wasn't really embarrassed, perhaps inpart due to the fact that she seemed genuinely concerned for my well being, and had picked up on symptoms I hadn't mentioned. As I dropped my trousers and she popped on her gloves we continued chatting without a break in conversation and the normality contInued even the examination commenced. At the time, maybe in part due to my poor health, I hadn't considered the examination to be remotely enthralling. It was only as time passed had I looked back at the experience as a pleasurable one ...

Hello. I would like to tell about my first experience with CFNM and how it has helped me become a better and more confident person.
Several years ago when i was a student. I did not have a lot of confidence and my selfesteem was also very low.
This was likely as a result of several years of bullying in school.

One saturday evening when i was drinking alone in a pub. I half-drunken was swiping on Tinder. I then suddenly matched with a girl on Tinder.
I have to admit i did not read her profiltext.
She and some friends where looking for a "cheap" male stripper for a bachelorette party next weekend. She and her friends, did not have money for a "real" stripper. So she thought she would try Tinder for fun.
Since we where both a bit bored. We ended up texting some more that saturday and the day after.
I found out the bachelorette party was not in the same city as i studied. But a small town an hour away by train. So after a bit self convincing i wrote her that i would be their free stripper the next weekend.

The next weekend i was very nervous and did a bit of drinking for courage before i went to the small town. The girl i had been texting with greeted me at the train station and thanked me for being brave enough. Before driving to the house where the bachelorette party where.
There i gave the first strip-show for my life for a group of happy girls.
After the stripshow. The girls gave me a lot of praise and compliments. Both for my body and personality.
Because of my low self-estem. This was a very unusual situation for me. But i enjoyed it a lot
The next couple of days after. I was in a very good mood and was for the first time very happy with my self.

In the years following that first strip-show. I started offering myself as free naked party entertainment and even made small business card with an email where i could be contacted.
And over the years being naked party entertainment have helped me build my confidence and self-estem. So much in fact i started doing a lot better in my professional worklife and started getting promoted to higher and better positions

So that was the story of my first CFNM experience and how CFNM have helped me become a better and more confident person.

Sadly my only RL CFNM experience is kinda disappointing. During an examination to see if I'm fit for military service a female doctor checked my body. Very business and professional, so there was no erotic athmosphere or anything. I guess medical-themed CFNM porn is very unrealistic, because doctors and nurses do this every day.

It wasn't involving myself directly, sadly. But it was the moment I realised CFNM was a thing for me. I was dating a girl, and she was friends with someone in the rugby team. They had some sort of initiation and all pulled down their pants, cocks on show. Women about and looking. My girlfriend was looking and laughing, and I felt a strange mix of jealousy and arousal. And thus began the starting point of my CFNM exploration!

SeksuelNerd, I found your story very interesting. Could you provide more datails about your first strip show in front of those happy girls? How old the girls were? Did you strip completely naked? Did you have an erection? How the girls behaved? Did they touch you? What did you feel then?

Haven't had one yet!! This is a fetish I've only recently found out I'm into. There may have been moments when I was younger, around boys who were nude like family members. But does that count. I also had some sexual experiences in college with guys, where I was way too self conscious to take my clothes off but they were more than happy to partially disrobe. I guess that does count.

Yes that counts! We'd love to hear about those experiences in more detail.

Good 10 years when living on the other side of the country a friend flew in to catch up.
Beforehand we had been texting away when I asked her if there was anything she was keen to experiment with while we were together? She replied back with CFNM!!
I had never heard of it so off to google i went and replied back with a simple OK. She text me through some simple instructions on the night while driving down which included warm water, shaving cream and a fresh razor. I was to be in a towel on her arrival.
She arrived and nervous/excited I answered. Wearing jeans and a T-shirt she greeted with a kiss and hug. As soon as she walked in I was told to sit down relax and enjoy.
She loved a shaved man and proceeded to shave my cock, balls and ass. By the time she was finished I was not only hair free for the first time but as hard as I could be.
She then told me she wasn't finished yet and went to her bag and pulled out her camera and asked if she could photograph me in my exposed state. So for the next hour she posed me in all sorts of positions for her entertainment. Flipping the camera to video she then made me jerk off in front of her until I came all over myself. We then cleaned up the mess and laid in bed talking about what had just happened while going through her camera.
We drifted off to sleep and spent the next week together exploring all sorts of different kinks and unfortunately lost contact over the years but I still look back and think fondly about that night

A friend of mine walked into my room after i just showered

what I regard as my first true CFNM experience was in a Thai massage parlour in Yorkshire. I was in the area on a course with a friend from home who found the place. So we went in and booked a massage. The female masseuse led me to a little room asked me to take off my clothes and said she'd be back in a few minutes.
She came in just the moment I had finished just as I was wrapping the towel around my waist, and seeing me said that she "wasn't shy" to which I replied neither was I and dropped the towel.
after that I got up on the massage bed, she put on some Thai music and gave me a very sensual full body massage back and front.

Late 90’s I was having a wee in a bar in Tucson where the urinal was right next to the door. My mate was using the stall at the same time.

A girl (who clearly couldn’t wait for the queue for the ladies) walked in, had a good look, and left.

I was turned on and I had to finish my wee with an awkward full-length semi.

Before I finished a second girl came in for a look. I can only assume she had just spoken to the first girl. She screamed and left, her curiosity satisfied.

I was a super shy kid, so when a female friend walked in on me in the shower in high school and saw me totally naked I was completely mortified. But I thought about it for years.

I've had close calls when younger with people trying to pull down my trousers. At the time it fills me with dread and panic, afterwards i enjoyed the idea and regretted there lack of success, haha.

What was her reaction? Did you talk about it?

My first girlfriend was really shy about being naked in front of me, so she would typically leave her clothes on and cover herself up while things got heavy between us.

Oh the other side of that, she really loved how men looked naked so when we'd get started, she would almost immediately take my clothes off and they'd stay off.

So, a typical experience for us was me totally naked and her only ever partially naked and only for a short time.

My first true CFNM experience(s) happened at Glastonbury festival. Maybe 2002 or 2003.

I believe that in the past the showers at Glastonbury were completely open, mixed sex showering naked together, I also believe that now they are completely gender segregated.

The year I went it was a halfway house between the two, the showers were all private cubicles going around the edge of the room, but it was mixed sex and everyone had to undress at the benches dotted around the centre.

The first time I went was on the Thursday night with the festival only starting up, I went in and no-one else was in there except I could see one woman showering at the far end (the cubicles had doors but only in the middle if you get me, you could see heads and feet) there were also some attendants, both male and female (Greenpeace volunteers as Greenpeace ran the showers) I got a bench and as I started to get undressed a female volunteer came over to me and started explaining how you cant use your own shower stuff, you have to use the environmentally friendly stuff they provide. That was fine I carried on undressing and headed for the shower (she would have seen me naked briefly) When I came out of the shower there was a woman getting undressed at the other side of my bench, she was down to black bra and knickers, but th elook on her face as I walked towards her completely naked was something else, half shock - I dont know, but that was the first time I think I really 'got' CFNM and I loved it ! I also loved the fact that she then quickly took off her bra giving me a very quick look at some nice boobs but she dashed into the shower cubicle keeping her knickers on !
In the same moment that female volunteer came over and started asking me how the shower was ! So I stood completely naked in front of her and chatted for a while whilst I dried off. My second total understanding of CFNM right there and then !!

Will post a couple of other Glastonbury moments in a few minutes, need a break.

My previous post is still awaiting moderation, but hopefully this slots in nicely after it !

A couple of other experiences from that Glastonbury trip, I loved seeing all the naked women in that shower area, but the CFNM moments really stood out for me.

I went to the showers again earlyish the next morning, before the bands started. It was busier but not as bad as later in the weekend, I walked straight in, but people were having to stand in line for a few minutes whilst a shower cubicle became available , I grabbed a bench and there was a girl about the same age as me (around 20) waiting for a cubicle, she was wearing knickers but had a towel wrapped around her top half. She started chatting with me and I began to get undressed, we chatted whilst I took off my t-shirt, shoes, socks and even my jeans so I was standing there in just my boxer shorts. I then take hold of the waistband and start to pull my boxers down, she turns away in an instance but carries on chatting with me, she clearly just felt it inappropriate to watch that as she then turns back around, clearly looks down at my penis for a couple of seconds and chats away for another minute until a cubicle comes free and she goes take a shower. I didnt see her again !

The next day it was even busier and there was a queue to even get in to the shower area, a few of us, male and female were chatting in the queue and having a laugh for about 30 minutes before I got into the shower area, as they were only letting people in 1 at a time we all got seperated at this point and I was one of the first of this group to go in. I went and had my shower (always some CFNM and lots of boobies, but nothing that stands out in my mind) but when I came out of the shower one of the girls I had been chatting with was just finishing getting dressed again at the bench were my clothes were, she must have showered and dressed really quickly ! Anyway I walked over to her totally naked and she made small talk for a couple of minutes before she left. Again that was just an amazing experience. I actually ended up having a drink with her and a few of the others later and all the time I was thinking how she has seen my completely naked but I havent seen anything of her. That was incredibly erotic to me !

andyadc they are awesome buddy. Thanks for sharing!
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