Hi,

So, I found this really fun video on Instagram of what seems like a birthday party for a grandmother. The guests (all women) present her with this penis cake and when she fondles the head it squirts out cream. It's a short, fun little video.

I'm wondering if this was worth sharing here in the Real Life, Unstaged CFNM Photos & Videos section. Also, I looked through the video posting rules and Instagram isn't listed as streaming site. So, should I download the video and reupload it to DailyMotion or Vimeo or is the Instagram link okay?

I'm sorry if any of these are stupid questions or if this isn't the right place to ask. I want to start contributing here and I want to make sure I don't make any mistakes that get me banned or anything.

Hey, sorry but I'd like to unsubscribe or unregister from CFNM Village. What is the process?

Welcome to the Village, Jack993. You are obviously doing the right thing, reading the rules and trying to comply with them is a good way to start.

Of course we have rules here for a reason, but we moderators prefer to help people to learn the rules if they are obviously trying to do the right thing rather than punish or ban them.

Of course, if a new poster continues to ignore our advice when we try to help them, they will not last very long.

The reason we have a preferred list for hosting sites is that many sites add malicious links and browser redirects when you download them. We try to keep the site as safe as possible for our members. Unfortunately over the past couple of years "safe hosting sites" are becoming rarer and rarer. Hosting sites now add malicious links seemingly at random and remove them in a similar pattern. You may find a link to the best piece of CFNM in history and determine that it is clean, then post it in the Village only to have the hosting site add malicious software to it half an hour later.

Only using sites on the preferred list does not guarantee that this will not happen any more, BUT it does show the moderation team that you have tried to obey the rules and we are more likely to decide that it was not your fault. Similarly, if you post a link that later contains a malicious browser redirector and it is not on the list, if it is the first time, you will likely get a warning. If you have a history of this chances are that the next time your little red arse comes in contact with the ground it will be outside the Village walls - permanently.

In summary, we try to maintain a flexible and friendly environment in the Village but there are lines that you cross at your peril. There are links to Instagram on the forum and I cannot remember seeing many problems with it. Personally, I woud stick tothe preferred list until you have a good posting history before getting too adventurous, just in case.

I'd also like to know what the forum policy on reposts is. I have a large folder of CFNM pictures which I've gathered over the years, but a lot of them are from this site. Of course, I can't really remember where each picture if from and so if I were to post them here some of them will end if being reposts. I ran a search of the word "repost" in the rules section but it didn't come up with anything. Also, I know a lot of members here post personal pictures that they themselves have taken and I don't want to plagiarise any of their stuff.

I was thinking of starting a thread and posting a few pictures regularly but I'm concerned about the repost issue.

Thanks Jack993, Most pictures on the forum are in fact reposts form somewhere. Reposting stuff from paysites can become an issue but I am sure you have found the list of prohibited paysite material while you have been browsing the rules. Occasionally we get contacted by someone who identifies themself as the subject of a photo on the board and asks us to remove it and we treat that seriously.

If you found it on the open internet and it is not watermarked as being from a prohibited paysite, go ahead and post it.

One proviso though - don't flood the board by posting it all at once. It will just devalue the material. Instead, do what one of our well respected members, Dave the Rave did a few years ago. He set himself a challenge to post one CFNM Beach photo a day for a year. It was a great thread. It allowed members to look forward to his daily post and gave people a reason to log in every day. Maybe you could do something similar.

Once again Jack993, you are looking to do the right thing so let's see how you go.

Thanks Jack993, Most pictures on the forum are in fact reposts form somewhere. Reposting stuff from paysites can become an issue but I am sure you have found the list of prohibited paysite material while you have been browsing the rules. Occasionally we get contacted by someone who identifies themself as the subject of a photo on the board and asks us to remove it and we treat that seriously.

If you found it on the open internet and it is not watermarked as being from a prohibited paysite, go ahead and post it.

One proviso though - don't flood the board by posting it all at once. It will just devalue the material. Instead, do what one of our well respected members, Dave the Rave did a few years ago. He set himself a challenge to post one CFNM Beach photo a day for a year. It was a great thread. It allowed members to look forward to his daily post and gave people a reason to log in every day. Maybe you could do something similar.

Once again Jack993, you are looking to do the right thing so let's see how you go.

I'd like to add that if you don't post a lot of photos in the same post but instead doing it sequentially, make sure you post within the dedicated topic for the theme of the photos - otherwise the board is flooded with individual posts.

Yes, I was thinking along the same lines. I thought I'd start a thread dedicated to CFNM with Asian women. I currently have 1255 pictures that fall into that category. So, if I end up posting around 10 a week, that should be around a years worth of material.

Great! I've had a number of very erotic CFNM experiences with Asian women. To me, they seem more open and interested in it than women from western cultures.

The question is whether these are photos from real-life experiences, events and situations, or, staged professional productions. The reason I bring this up is we have two forums for such things - one real, the other fake and produced for profit. Both are allowed.

As it pertains to the former, I've started a thread for you such that you can begin to populate it with content:
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=3104&p=1514#p1514

what I can do to get more power ??

Okay, so I fully understand why these new rules were implemented (bots suck, yo), but what I'm still not clear on is where we ought to post our initial posts in order to prove we ain't no stinkin' bots. Is this thread a legitimate place for that, or only the <newbies introductions> posts?

(Feels a bit strange to call myself a "newbie"--I've been at this stuff longer than Super, frankly.)

Hello all, I've read the newbies rules, but really don't understand how I can make 5 posts validate if I have no access to posting catégories ??
I'm not familiar with internet forums, so maybe I missed something...
Thanks