Hi all - why do I like CFNM? Well, never much thought about it until reading Brad’s excellent discussions on Visual Sensations for Women. It hit home since I am nude in any and every socially acceptable situations, while my wife is almost a “never-nude”, i.e. always covered, top and bottom, unless absolutely required (showers, doctor visits, sex, etc.) But she has come to accept that being nude is a part of me, and so accepts it as long as she is not embarrassed by me being nude where it might be inappropriate. (That’s ok with me - I’m not an exibitionist!)
So we are often CFNM at home - we have a private sundeck, secluded back yard, etc. We also go boating in the Pacific Northwest where a few days of the year are actually warm enough to go nude. In all these occasions I love being nude with her - playing ping-pong, running the boat, washing the car in the back yard, etc. we have a small motorhome as well, and love to camp in secluded spots, but also have gone to a c/o private campground, where I think she gets a kick out of sitting around fully clothed while I hang out with other naked men.
So I have no problem with her not wanting to go nude, just as long as she lets me be me. In fact I find it very sexy and it just makes me love her all the more. (We’ve been married over 40 years, so it’s not just a passing relationship!)
Anyway, I have gained a lot from VSFW and cfnmvillage - for one thing to find out that I’m not the only one to fell this way. Keep up the good work. Thanks, BBNW
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